According to Pastor Phil Ayres, one of the best ways to strengthen your relationship is through intentional quality time. Whether you’re newlyweds, longtime partners, or somewhere in between, these ten date ideas can bring variety and connection to your relationship.
1. Take a Weekend Away
A short getaway can be the perfect way to relax and reconnect. Pastor Phil suggests a cozy winter escape, camping under the stars, or staying in a cabin. “The point is, you pick your context… and you find what energises you,” he explains.
2. Go on a Road Trip
A road trip offers adventure and great conversations. Pastor Phil shares, “Some of our best moments have been road trips. We found that driving was a brilliant way for us to sort out conflict.” Plan a destination or just drive and see where the road takes you!
3. Enjoy a Spa Day
For a luxurious treat, book a couple’s spa day. “If you’ve saved up a bit, this is a great way to relax together,” says Pastor Phil. Even if you just send your partner and enjoy the peace, it’s a gift of self-care.
4. Cook Dinner Together
Cooking can be a fun and budget-friendly date night. Set the mood with candles and music. “There’s nothing more romantic than cooking an amazing meal together,” Pastor Phil says. Even if the meal turns out less than perfect, the experience is what matters!
5. Try an Outdoor Adventure
If you love the outdoors, consider hiking, climbing, or even water sports. “Sometimes, it’s the slips, the scratches, and the bumps that create lasting memories,” Pastor Phil notes. Adventure brings excitement and strengthens your bond.
6. Watch a Movie Together
Going to the movies is a classic date idea. It allows you to spend time together without the pressure of constant conversation. “This is a great option for quality time people who just like being together,” he explains.
7. Have a Picnic Under the Stars
Grab a blanket, pack some food, and find a quiet spot outdoors. “Summers nights are amazing and beautiful,” says Pastor Phil. Just don’t forget the bug spray!
8. Take a Dance Class
Want to spice things up? A dance class can be a fun way to connect. Pastor Phil and his wife took one and found it hilarious. “It was a rotation dance, so I ended up dancing with 40 different women,” he laughs. Whether you’re a natural or have two left feet, it’s all about having fun together.
9. Order Takeout for a Cozy Night In
Sometimes, the best dates happen at home. Order food from your favourite restaurant, set the table nicely, and enjoy a stress-free evening. “No dishes, no cleanup, just time together,” Pastor Phil suggests.
10. Volunteer Together
Giving back can bring couples closer. “There’s nothing more energising than investing in people’s lives in a positive way,” Pastor Phil says. Whether it’s a one-time event or an ongoing commitment, serving together fosters a sense of shared purpose.
Strengthen Your Connection
Relationships thrive when couples make time for each other. Whether it’s a grand getaway or a simple dinner at home, the key is intentionality. As Pastor Phil puts it, “It’s not about how much you spend, but how much you invest in each other.”
So, which date idea will you try next? Listen to the full conversation below!