As parents, we’ve all been there. The end of the school holidays rolls around, and suddenly, the carefree days give way to the hustle and bustle of the school routine. Most kids aren’t exactly thrilled about bidding farewell to those precious days of freedom. But for some kids, returning to school isn’t just a minor inconvenience.School refusal

What is school refusal?

School refusal describes when children become so distressed about going to school that they flat-out refuse to attend. The mere thought of school sends your child into a tailspin of emotions. From stomach aches to tears, the signs are all there. As parents, it’s natural to feel a wave of worry wash over us. What if this refusal impacts their education, future, or social development?

The signs to look out for

School refusal is your child’s way of communicating that something isn’t quite right. And decoding those signals isn’t always a walk in the park. It could be academic pressures, social struggles, or even stuff going on at home that’s got them hitting the brakes.

So, what are the red flags to watch out for? School refusal comes in many shapes and sizes, but it all boils down to one thing, communication. Whether it’s physical symptoms like headaches and tummy aches, emotional changes like increased crying or panic attacks, or behavioural shifts like difficulty sleeping or repeated requests to stay home, your child is trying to tell you something.

The impact on parents

Understanding the reasons behind school refusal isn’t always straightforward. It could stem from academic hurdles, social anxieties, or major life events like divorce or relocation. And let’s not forget about the impact on us parents. The stress, the worry, the guilt and feeling like you’re not doing enough. But you’re not alone. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish, it’s essential. Because when you’re in good shape, you’re better equipped to support your child through these challenging times.

To learn more about the child psychology you can listen to Susan Woodworth from Walk and Talk Therapy on The Bec Show ever fortnight.